Things can always be improved. What appears to be a great strength of men is ultimately a weakness: yes, we reach goals faster. But we arrive alone and our position is extremely unstable. You need a little longer. Your only mistake is to let the boys take you by surprise too often and therefore lose sight of your goals. A little tip?
Just think more often about what you actually want to achieve. In small things as well as in big things, in your professional life as well as in your private life. And then check whether what you are doing at the moment is leading in the direction of your goals. If not, don’t do it. If so, take all the time you need and don’t let yourself get sidetracked.